There are many, many coaches and leaders and mentors out there wanting us to STEP INTO YOUR POWER, BE GODDESS, ROAR YOUR FEMININITY…..It’s a process. There is first deep healing that needs to be done before walking into that place. We ALL have to. Those coaches and mentors had to first do it, too.
The stuff that needs healing doesn’t evaporate. It is there beneath the surface, like my melanoma was the tip of my iceberg. It could barely be seen but went much more deeply than even the doctors had imagined. Physically, it was deeply rooted in the lymph nodes under my left arm. Those were all removed. However, Emotionally, I am still working on it!
Like a cancer, suppressed emotions, feelings, old beliefs, fester away in our bodies. It may be unseen, unheard, unfelt, but still there being destructive without us even aware of what is being destroyed. Is it hope, confidence, courage, faith, trust? What are your old memories and beliefs destroying and keeping you from accomplishing?
It does not help by ignoring it or pretending nothing is there. Going deeply, I have found old beliefs I didn’t even know I carried. I have gone to my shadow self to look for what holds me back. It isn’t easy, there are tears but they need the escape in order to move forward and live the full potential God intended.
It is so worth going into that place where we are unsure of what we will see. There is darkness, pain, sorrow, anger-everything you need to let go of is there just waiting to be acknowledged. That’s all. Acknowledged that it is there, had a purpose, made you stronger and wiser.
Unless we even know what is there to release, it will keep hold of us. I have been there and I have seen and felt that side. Well, I have stepped through the tunnel, I have weathered that storm and can now express how liberating it is to be here, on the side of light and freedom. I faced what was holding me in an old, unproductive cycle of doubt and unsuccesses. I was keeping myself there because I carried an old story that successful women were intimidating and selfish.
After walking through the darkness, I now stand in the light of a beautiful, peaceful valley. Will there be more tunnels and other storms? Well, this is life. But I can walk through them now knowing there is another light-filled peaceful valley on the other side. It is a balance of knowing how to navigate through the storm, acknowledging the lessons being offered, recognizing any old paradigms that I was taught and can safely release.
There is a time when there are more peaceful valleys and fewer storms and this has a lot to do with how we learn to perceive a storm. If we acknowledge it for what it is, not attach ourselves to it, we can bless it and send it on its way.
From personal experience, I recommend walking through a healing session. Gentle guided meditations, Chakra balancing, and Reiki can walk you through whatever is hidden within your soul thinking it is protecting you. Don’t let old, suppressed memories and emotions eat you up inside. Consider taking a healing journey with me and give your soul a chance to show you what you are carrying that does not serve you anymore.
May your life bring fewer destructive forces and more peaceful valleys 🙂